Q: What is the ruling regarding birthdays? Our Muslims greet one another on this day and feel insulted if one does not greet them. Another issue is regarding birthday cakes, gifts and parties. Please advise.

A: Celebrating birthdays is a custom of the kuffaar. As Muslims, we are commanded to refrain from emulating the kuffaar as well as adopting their ways. Nabi (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam) said:

من تشبه بقوم فهو منهم

The one who emulates a people will be counted from amongst them (in the court of Allah Ta‘ala).