Hereunder are few verses of the Qur’aan Majeed and Ahaadith of Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam) which explain as well as emphasize the need of observing purdah.
Allah Ta‘ala says in the Qur’aan Majeed:
یٰۤاَیُّہَا النَّبِیُّ قُلۡ لِّاَزۡوَاجِکَ وَ بَنٰتِکَ وَ نِسَآءِ الۡمُؤۡمِنِیۡنَ یُدۡنِیۡنَ عَلَیۡہِنَّ مِنۡ جَلَابِیۡبِہِنَّ ؕ
O Nabi (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam)! Command your wives, daughters and the believing women to don the niqaab (veil). (Surah Ahzaab v. 59)
In another verse, while commanding the wives of Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam) to adopt purdah and don the veil, Allah Ta‘ala says:
ذٰلِکُمۡ اَطۡہَرُ لِقُلُوۡبِکُمۡ وَ قُلُوۡبِہِنَّ ؕ
That (observing purdah) is better for the purity of your hearts and their hearts (i.e. the hearts of men). (Surah Ahzaab v. 53)
Once, Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam) questioned the Sahaabah (radhiyallahu ‘anhum) as to what was the most beneficial thing for women (i.e. the thing most beloved in the sight of Allah Ta‘ala and most safeguarding for their deen). None of the Sahaabah (radhiyallahu ‘anhum) had given any answer to Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam) in that gathering. When Hazrat ‘Ali (radhiyallahu ‘anhu) returned home and informed Hazrat Faatimah (radhiyallahu ‘anha) regarding the question Nabi (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam) posed to the Sahaabah (radhiyallahu ‘anhum), she spontaneously answered, “The thing most beneficial for women and most beloved in the sight of Allah Ta‘ala (in safeguarding their deen) is that they do not see men and that men do not see them (i.e. they do not have any contact with men and vice versa).” When Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam) was informed of the response of Hazrat Faatimah (radhiyallahu ‘anha), Nabi (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam) said, “Faatimah is part of me.”
Hazrat Ummu Salamah (radhiyallahu ‘anha) reported, “Once, Hazrat Maymoonah (radhiyallahu ‘anha) and I were seated with Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam). It was just then that Hazrat Abdullah bin Ummi Maktoom (radhiyallahu ‘anhu) (the blind Sahaabi) entered the presence of Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam). Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam) immediately commanded Hazrat Maymoonah (radhiyallahu ‘anha) and I to observe purdah from the blind Sahaabi. I said, “O Nabi of Allah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam)! Is he not blind and unable to see us (i.e. what is the need for us to move away from the gathering and make purdah from him)?” Nabi (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam) replied, “Are you two also blind?” (i.e. you are able to see him, hence you need to observe purdah from him)".
Despite the men and women of the Sahaabah (radhiyallahu ‘anhum) being so pure compared to the men and women of these times, they were still commanded to observe purdah. Hence, viewing the overwhelming fitnahs of these times, how much more is the need for non-mahram men and women observing purdah in their lives!
Hereunder are few Ahaadith that explain the grave warnings and severe punishment for those who disregard and violate this injunction of Deen:
Hazrat Ma’qil ibn Yasaar (radhiyallahu ‘anhu) reports that Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam) said, “It is better for a person that a needle be pierced into his head than for him to touch a woman whom it is not permissible for him to touch”.
Hazrat Abu Umaamah (radhiyallahu ‘anhu) reports that Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam) said, “Abstain from being in seclusion with women. By the qasam of that Being in whose control lies my life, no man secludes himself with a strange women but shaitaan joins them. And it is better for a person to touch a swine which is messed in mud than to allow his shoulder to touch the shoulder of a strange woman (in a crowd).”
Hazrat ‘Uqbah (radhiyallahu ‘anhu) reports that Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam) said, “Guard yourselves from entering upon women (who are unlawful for you)”. An Ansaari Sahaabi (radhiyallahu ‘anhu) enquired, “O Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam)! What about the brother-in-law?” Nabi (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam) replied, “The brother-in-law is (like) death (i.e. much more precaution should be exercised from him).”
From the above, we understand the gravity of the sin of freely intermingling with non-mahrams and not observing purdah from them. True success and happiness lies in total submission and obedience to the laws of Allah Ta‘ala and His Rasul (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam).
And Allah Ta‘ala (الله تعالى) knows best.
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Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)
عن ابن عمر قال: خطبنا عمر بالجابية فقال: يا أيها الناس إني قمت فيكم كمقام رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم فينا فقال: أوصيكم بأصحابي ثم الذين يلونهم ثم الذين يلونهم ثم يفشوا الكذب حتى يحلف الرجل ولا يستحلف ويشهد الشاهد ولا يستشهد ألا لا يخلون رجل بامرأة إلا كان ثالثهما الشيطان عليكم بالجماعة وإياكم والفرقة فإن الشيطان مع الواحد وهو من الاثنين أبعد من أراد بحبوحة الجنة فيلزم الجماعة من سرته حسنته وساءته سيئته فذلك المؤمن (سنن الترمذي، الرقم: 2165)
عن علي أنه كان عند النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم فقال: أي شيء خير للمرأة فسكتوا قال: فلما رجعت قلت لفاطمة: أي شيء خير للنساء قالت لا يرين الرجال ولا يرونهن فذكرت ذلك للنبي صلى الله عليه وسلم فقال: إنما فاطمة بضعة مني (كنز العمال، الرقم: 46012)
عن أم سلمة قالت: كنت عند رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم وعنده ميمونة فأقبل ابن أم مكتوم وذلك بعد أن أمرنا بالحجاب فقال النبى صلى الله عليه وسلم: احتجبا منه فقلنا: يا رسول الله أليس أعمى لا يبصرنا ولا يعرفنا فقال النبى صلى الله عليه وسلم: أفعمياوان أنتما ألستما تبصرانه (سنن أبي داود، الرقم: 4112)
عن معقل بن يسار يقول : قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم : لأن يطعن في رأس أحدكم بمخيط من حديد خير له من أن يمس امرأة لا تحل له (المعجم الكبير للطبراني، الرقم: 486، قال العلامة الهيثمي في مجمع الزوائد، الرقم: 7718: رواه الطبراني ورجاله رجال الصحيح)
عن أبي أمامة : عن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم قال: إياكم والخلوة بالنساء والذي نفسي بيده ما خلا رجل وامرأة إلا خل الشيطان بينهما ولأن يزحم رجل خنزيرا متلطخا بطين أو حمأة خير له من أن يزحم منكبه منكب امرأة لا تحل له (المعجم الكبير للطبراني، الرقم: 7830، قال العلامة الهيثمي في مجمع الزوائد، الرقم: 7717 رواه الطبراني وفيه علي بن يزيد الألهاني وهو ضعيف جدا وفيه توثيق)
عن عقبة بن عامر أن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم قال: إياكم والدخول على النساء فقال رجل من الأنصار: يا رسول الله أفرأيت الحمو قال: الحمو الموت (صحيح البخاري، الرقم: 5232)