Q: Can you please explain the rights and responsibilities of each spouse in nikaah? From the wife and husband, who has more rights and responsibilities?

A: There are certain responsibilities which have been placed upon both the husband and wife equally, and there are other responsibilities which have been placed upon each one individually. These responsibilities have been placed upon them by Shari‘ah according to their position.

For example, the husband’s duty is to provide shelter and accommodation for his wife and children as well as earn a living to fulfil their needs and requirements (i.e. providing them with food, clothing, accommodation, etc.). It is not permissible for the husband to burden his wife with the responsibility of earning to contribute to the running expenses of the home.

The wife’s responsibility is to attend to the internal affairs of the home and see to the children. As far as the upbringing of the children are concerned, then it is the responsibility of both the husband and the wife to guide them towards the right and instil deeni values within them.